Why are these toys in the middle of the floor? Whose turn is it to do the dishes? When are you going to mow the lawn? Our neighbours are giving us dirty looks. Everyday we make decisions whether to ignore things or deal with them. Some challenges are easier to solve, while others, not so much.
When it comes to relationships, quite often there is a dynamic in which one person wants to fix the problem while the other person would feel more comfortable ignoring it. Perhaps because talking about stuff ends up creating more drama or because it never feels like they can come to a positive conclusion. This creates a game of emotional tag.
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